HOW TO LIVE LIFE FULL OF CONFIDENCE

What is confidence? How do you get it? Where can you find it? Why are you losing confidence? Were you confident enough once but not now?
These are all the questions people keep asking to themselves at the time when they feel it is difficult facing problems or issues and they start loosing confidence.
Confidence is nothing but just your way of doing work and getting positive result out of it. Yes, completing a task boost confidence in you. But why sometimes you lose in between?

How you lose Confidence:

Sometime people lack so much of confidence that they get failure every time in every work in their daily routine. Small things seems like a burden to them. They can't solve their trifle matters. They try to do different things and still feels incomplete. One of my friend, start drinking and smoking, was trying to look confident, and indulge himself in bad activity and, later derived a conclusion that he had wasted a lot of time in life doing deeds that leads him to nowhere but to ruin and devastation.

Misconception:

So what is the correct way of boosting confidence in yourself? I remember, when I was a kid, a teacher of mine used to say that confidence is nothing you can go to market and buy it from there in pounds/kilograms. It is a sort of process. A sort of cycle. If you do right work at right time and you complete it, you get confidence. Effectively managing things and deriving positive result out of it boost confidence in it. And yes, a healthy mind lies in a healthy body.
                                      But just completing things on times does not make you a confident mature human-being. You can always complete work on time with experience as well, and if you had done something before then it is easy for you to recall the right way to complete thing and you can do it again. So it is what we call experience.

How to get Confidence:

Confidence is certainly something that work as a enabler and make you try different things in your own way. It makes you enable to use your creativity and think out of box. Once you start getting positive result out of it, your mind start working in the same direction and it makes a kind of algorithm about how you can always work with the new ideas and how should you implement new things that you have never tried before.
                                                 So you get confidence once you start doing things your own way. It's a sort of cycle and once you start gaining confidence, you keep boosting your confidence.

Do not lose again:

Sometime people may also challenge you doing things your own way but you must try to convince them and do not break your chain. You can always do things listening other people but you must try to make this experience better doing things your own way. You need to keep in mind that ultimately what matters is result and you gotta make positive result out if it. Yes, if you are working with right ethics and you are stick to your ethics and ethos, and you are working diligently, then no matter what but victory will be always yours in the last.

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DO NOT DWELL IN THE PAST

I do understand when sometimes people may find it very difficult to live. Generally people who have faced bad time in their life and they are unable to live with the memories of those moments. Some have lost their job, some have lost their love and sometime people feel completely ruined because of the situations in life.

 You might, as well, had some bad time. You may find it difficult to forget the terrible experiences and times and how you struggled through it but you must not think of past. It may cause you lose confidence, decrease efficiency etc. so why you are thinking of past. It is not going to change and what matters is how to build your future. You must always focus on future in life and this is the way of living.

               

             You want to start from the starting, a fresh start but do not know how, so here are some steps you may follow:

A healthy mind lies in a healthy body:

Do not forget it. A healthy mind always lies in a healthy body so if you want to start all over again and start making positive efforts to completely change your life then you need to first take care of your body. You must make a proper routine and start doing exercise in the morning. Even a 2 km. running in the morning prove to be best exercise.

Start making small goals:

You should always plan ahead. Yes, after the exercise, you must see for the works to complete and those which are pending and start with small goals to complete them till the end of your day. Making small goals and completing them in the pre-defined time period can be proved a confidence booster for you. Then you will start getting positive vibes again in your life.

Change your environment:

You need to change completely you whole lifestyle even sometime your old friends too. Old environment always lead you to think about old things so now you need all new atmosphere to prosper and flourish in. And remember, you must always enclose yourself with the positive people and things in your life.

Adapt the incremental thinking approach in life:

Yes, incremental thinking is like compound interest which start increasing slowly at first but then start increasing exponentially later. You must understand that completing those small tasks lead you to complete your goal on time itself. You must always divide your work in small tasks, umber of tasks, and then start working on those tasks. Once you complete every task, you will eventually achieve your goal. This is the power of incremental thinking.

There are so many things that matters in life but adapting right things and keep moving forward will bring success, achievement, and satisfaction in your life gradually.

LIFE IS TO BE ENJOYED...NOT ENDURED

It's really miserable that how many people miss childhood in their life....they don't progress further from pokemon and shinchan :D ....and with time they grow emotional trash inside their body. Time has to give a lot to every person of every age and life is full of adventures and mysteries. You just need to keep moving ahead, exploring things which are beyond access!