Saturday, May 23, 2015

HOW TO LIVE LIFE FULL OF CONFIDENCE

What is confidence? How do you get it? Where can you find it? Why are you losing confidence? Were you confident enough once but not now?
These are all the questions people keep asking to themselves at the time when they feel it is difficult facing problems or issues and they start loosing confidence.
Confidence is nothing but just your way of doing work and getting positive result out of it. Yes, completing a task boost confidence in you. But why sometimes you lose in between?

How you lose Confidence:

Sometime people lack so much of confidence that they get failure every time in every work in their daily routine. Small things seems like a burden to them. They can't solve their trifle matters. They try to do different things and still feels incomplete. One of my friend, start drinking and smoking, was trying to look confident, and indulge himself in bad activity and, later derived a conclusion that he had wasted a lot of time in life doing deeds that leads him to nowhere but to ruin and devastation.

Misconception:

So what is the correct way of boosting confidence in yourself? I remember, when I was a kid, a teacher of mine used to say that confidence is nothing you can go to market and buy it from there in pounds/kilograms. It is a sort of process. A sort of cycle. If you do right work at right time and you complete it, you get confidence. Effectively managing things and deriving positive result out of it boost confidence in it. And yes, a healthy mind lies in a healthy body.
                                      But just completing things on times does not make you a confident mature human-being. You can always complete work on time with experience as well, and if you had done something before then it is easy for you to recall the right way to complete thing and you can do it again. So it is what we call experience.

How to get Confidence:

Confidence is certainly something that work as a enabler and make you try different things in your own way. It makes you enable to use your creativity and think out of box. Once you start getting positive result out of it, your mind start working in the same direction and it makes a kind of algorithm about how you can always work with the new ideas and how should you implement new things that you have never tried before.
                                                 So you get confidence once you start doing things your own way. It's a sort of cycle and once you start gaining confidence, you keep boosting your confidence.

Do not lose again:

Sometime people may also challenge you doing things your own way but you must try to convince them and do not break your chain. You can always do things listening other people but you must try to make this experience better doing things your own way. You need to keep in mind that ultimately what matters is result and you gotta make positive result out if it. Yes, if you are working with right ethics and you are stick to your ethics and ethos, and you are working diligently, then no matter what but victory will be always yours in the last.

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